Dating different people once
Trusting your heart can lead anyone into making bad decisions. Can you really say that you have “the heart” figured out?When we say “trust your heart” what we really mean is “trust how you feel” and without me referring to any scripture right now ask yourself, “Has trusting how I felt led me in the wrong direction before? We’ve all been in relational situations where we’ve found out we were wrong, but if you let our feelings tell it, that was the person we thought we’d spend the rest of our lives with.But from what she revealed to me is that women are completely different.Men have a way of disconnecting themselves emotionally even if they’ve had sex with the person.Things can escalate quickly so don’t blur the lines. I hope you can see where this could be an issue because if this is protocol for all the people you’re dating, well, that’s a problem.Let’s say you have 3 different people that you’re dating at once. You kiss and hug each of them, and I’m not referring to the church hugs.There are two questions you should be asking each other from the very beginning, and those 2 questions are: What is this? Dating is already confusing as it is so set the expectations before, not after.
Here’s one thing that may come as a shock, but you can’t always TRUST YOUR HEART.
Now of course we know that these two men were not sexually intimate.
You see how ties were created even though sex was not a part of the equation?
Meaning one moment one of them have come over to enjoy a movie, and the next moment you find yourself repenting in the morning.
Try telling the person that you just “Netflix and Chilled” with that you would see them today, but you have a movie date with someone else. Set “dating” guidelines, and define what dating looks like for you. Take ALL the romantic, touchy-feely stuff out of the equation so lines don’t get crossed or blurred.